6 May 2013

Be unique


Why is it that some people's discussion end in argument while others may discuss the  same subject and end their discussion in a friendly manner? It has everything to do with the skills of holding a discussion.

Why is it when someone speaks in gathering, everyone  listens  to him attentively and focuses on him , whereas when someone else speaks, they began to talk about other side issues and start reading their text massages? It has everything to with the skills of verbal communication.


Why is it father enters his house and his children smile at him with joy whereas another come to see his children but they do not even turn acknowledge his presence? It is all to do with the skills of dealing with children. You can say the same about the masjid wedding parties and so on.

People differ varying degrees from each other in terms of their interpersonal skills, and accordingly the way they are treated by others also differs to varying degrees. Influencing people and earning their love in easier than one  can imagine.

People are affected by the way we deal with them whether we realize it or not .when we get used of such skills, they become part of our nature, and others certainly when we negligently fail to practice them.
                                             Enlightenment ...
Do not earn wealth and lose people for earning people is a way to earn wealth.

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