WHY DO WE SEARCH FOR SKILLS

       It is difficult to find a successful person in academia, pricing, lecturing, business, medicine engineering or influencing others, or successful in family life, such as a successful father with his children or a successful wife with her husband or successful in their social life, such as a person who is successful with his neighbors or colleagues and I mean a truly successful person not the one who simply climbs upon other shoulders .  It is really difficult to find such a highly successful person who dose not practice certain interpersonal skills through which he has been able to achieve such success, whether they realize it or not.

               Some may exercise such interpersonal skills instinctively, while others may have to learn them in other to be successful and these latter people are the type of successful personalities whose life we
would like to study and whose methods we would closely seek to follow in order to discover how they were successful ,and to find out whether or not we can take their route to success. If Allah grant us the ability. If one learn these skills , exercises them,  perseveres and remains steadfast, then yes, he can surely be successful.

                Another reason for us to search for skills is that is that some of us my have certain abilities, which we remain unaware of, or which nobody has assisted us in discovering, such as the skills of delivering a lecture, business acumen or possessing general knowledge .

                One may discover these skills on his own, though a teacher's or a friend's help or through a sincere brother, however few they me be! However, these skills may remain buried inside the person until his personality becomes as stale as anyone's, and this is when we all lose out another leader, lecture or a scholar, or a successful husband or a caring father.

                here we will mention certain skills which we would like to remind you of if you already possess them, or which we will like o train you if you don’t. so  come along